The renter, who was the guy writing all those letters, wrote one in which he confessed he was Oskar's grandfather. With this, the mystery of who the letters were directed to was solved, they were aimed to be read by Oskar's dad. I also found out that the letters weren't only sent by the renter, or better said, the grandpa, but also by the grandma, surprising isn't it? On the other hand, Oskar continued his search for the lock, trying never to give up. The last black he visited was Peter Black, a sweet man with a little baby, but not useful regarding the key. Eight months had already passed by when Oskar arrived home that afternoon, to find a surprise he was surely not expecting. Oskar reached towards the phone to hear the messages for the first time since his dad had died. He listened to a message from Abby Black, the second Black he had met. The message stated that Abby wasn't totally honest with Oskar, and that she could help him with the key. But the message was cut. Oskar went to Abby's house to talk to her and find out more about that confusing message. Once he got there, she told him that her ex-husband might be able to help him with the key, and gave Oskar an address were he could find him. Moreover, Abby confessed that she had talked to Oskar's mother, and that she knew everything about the key mission, she knew exactly were Oskar was going every time he left the apartment, and that's why she never asked questions. Oskar went to the address Abby gave him. To make a long story short, he found Abby's husband and found the solution for his key problem. This man told him all about the key and the lock, but unfortunately, nothing about his father. The key turned out to open a safe-deposit box of Abby's ex-husband's father, who had nothing to do at all with Oskar's father. This was a tremendous disappointment for me and surely for Oskar as well. After talking to this man, Oskar went back home, but first he met with the renter to plan how they were going to dig up Oskar's father's grave. The night that finally happened, was one of the hardest nights for Oskar. The renter and Oskar went to the cemetery and started to look for his father's grave. Once they found it, they opened it and found nothing inside, which was nothing knew to Oskar, since he had known his father's body was not found or buried. The renter filled the grave with all those letters he never sent, letters Oskar knew nothing about. That night, Oskar confessed something about the day his father died, he had never told anyone. That afternoon, when he reached home, he heard the messages his dad had left. Afterwards, the phone rang, and it was him, it was his dad, but he didn't answer, he couldn't, and for so felt guilty for his Dad's death. Afterwards, when Oskar got back home, his mother was waiting awake in the living room and for once in a long while they talked like a mother and a son about life. They confessed things to each other and they ended up loving each other just a little bit more.
In these pages I was surprised by how many interesting and meaningful quotes there were. The first one is one originally said by Albert Einstein, but read by Oskar. It goes like this:
"Our situation is the following, we are standing in front of a closed box which we cannot open" (Foer, 305).
I believe Albert Einstein has just described every human's life in a sentence. We all want to unravel our own mysteries and keep on moving with our lives, we want to be strong and fight, but we are not always able to do so. We are always afraid of something, that something might happen or that something might go wrong, and destroy everything we builded. We stand in front of a closer door, box, or what ever it is you want to call it, that we cannot open because of fear. Why are humans so fearful? Why are we always afraid of everything? It is said that when you stop being afraid, you'll start enjoying. And it's true. Why do pass our entire life looking for something we are afraid to find, even if it's right in front of us. Why can't we open that closed box? I don't know, but what I do know is that we must overcome this in order to truly be happy in life, we need to stop being afraid about everything and start actually having fun."The mistakes I made are dead to me. But I can't take back the things I never did" (Foer, 309).
This quote reminds me of one I have read before which states that in the end you only regret the chances you did't take. I believe this quote is true. In the moment we need to make a decision on wether we do or not something, we think mainly about two things, what happens if we do it, and what are the consequences of it. Most of the times, we choose not to do that something, if there are severe things that can happen from it, that we might regret later. But are we actually going to regret that something more for doing it or for being too afraid, and not doing it? Life is only one, and moments and opportunities occur once, so take it or leave it, and it's better for you to take it. If you take a chance, it could go wrong, but it could also go right, so what do you prefer? Doing something with the chance of getting it wrong, or not doing it with the chance of getting it right? In the end mistakes are forgiven and forgotten, but chances never occur twice.
The book "Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close", is a book that is confusing until the end, that keeps you hooked until the very end. Even if the end was sort if disappointing, because of the fact that the key had nothing to do with Oskar or his father, it was still a very emotive ending, with many messages to keep for the rest of my life. The last pages of the book were the ones that I liked the most. They were filled with emotions and events that touched me. This novel teaches people about life from a different perspective, from the perspective of a different boy with a very troubled mind. I believe this book is a very good one that most people should read at least once in their lives.


















